We visited the grandkids in Reno this past week. The grandkids who, at ages 7 and 9, want to be an astronaut and a weather prognosticator. When I was their age, so I am told although I don’t actually remember this, I had one goal in mind. And that was to be a Grandmother.
One would assume I made this noble life-choice because I had a great relationship with my own grandmother. But that isn’t the case. I never met my paternal grandmother who died before I was born. And I only saw my maternal grandmother for a week or so every other year. Probably because my maternal grandmother and I share a similar personality, tending to be quiet and rather shy, we never really got to know each other. Grandmother was certainly nice but not the kind that held us grandkids on her lap reading silly stories or took us on a walk to the park. Our times together were those of strangers thrust upon each other and we kept our polite distance.
Rather, I can only believe that my earliest life-goal of being a grandmother was decided upon because of my great intelligence and insight (at which point you are probably saying, “What happened to all of that intelligence and insight?” But that’s a blog for another day.)
I was intelligent and insightful enough to choose a life-goal that will never be removed from the realm of possibility by funding cuts, like becoming an astronaut, or be replaced by bigger and better technology, like weather prognosticating may some day be. My goal requires no special training or education, no particular location or amount of money. You don’t even have to be a parent first, or at all! You can “grandparent” a child from your neighborhood or your church. The only real requirement to being a grandparent is to first achieve a Certain Age. Yes, grandparenthood is here to stay and is achieveable by all.
We got to visit our grandkids this week in Reno. Then we came home and saw our “grandkids” at church. It’s a life-goal, good forever.